As long as you believe that others are responsible for your reactions and behaviour, and as long as you rely on them to make you cheerful and happy, you are still caught in the claws of your own Ego.
Your only responsibility considers your own thoughts, actions, and emotions. When it comes to relationship problems the responsibility lies on both sides. Relationship problem is never unilateral, so resolving it cannot be unilateral either.
That is a hard comment, difficult to face, difficult to accept. It puts the onus on me for resolving any relationship problem.
That’s exactly what I am finding out…much to my regret. Thank you for the advice.🥺😢